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The Hot Mess Journal

Hey fabulous mamas! 🌟 Welcome to the Productive as a Mother blog, where we’re all about turning you from a hot mess into a total mom maven! Whether you’re a stay-at-home queen, work-from-home boss, or juggling a full-time gig, we’ve got the ultimate tips and hacks for boosting productivity and nailing your morning routine. Dive in for real-deal advice that’ll help you slay your day and make mom life look effortless. Ready to level up and crush it? Let’s get started!

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Let’s be real: if you’re a Type B (aka hot mess express) mom, the idea of a “perfect” morning routine sounds about as realistic as drinking coffee while it’s still hot. Most of the routines you see on Instagram are made for Type A moms who thrive on color-coded calendars and 5 a.m. workouts. But guess what? You don’t need to wake up at the crack of dawn or meditate for 30 minutes to make mornings work for you.

You just need a routine that’s simple, flexible, and actually fits your life.

Here are some hacks and routines that actually stick (no personality transplant required).



1. Habit Stack With Coffee 


If coffee is non-negotiable in your morning (same), then let it work harder for you. This is called habit stacking—pairing a new habit with one you already do without fail.

Example:
  • Brew coffee → jot down 3 things you’re grateful for.
  • Sip coffee → glance at your daily top 3 priorities.
See? You’re not adding more chaos—you’re just piggybacking on something you were gonna do anyway.



2. Listen to Affirmations Instead of Scrolling


Instead of doom-scrolling while half-asleep, throw on a quick affirmations playlist or podcast while you’re making breakfast. It’s a tiny mindset shift that keeps your brain out of “overwhelm mode” before the day even starts.

Pro tip: pop your earbuds in while unloading the dishwasher or packing lunches—affirmations + chores = multitasking queen energy.



3. Vision & Goals While Brushing Your Teeth



Hear me out: brushing your teeth takes 2 minutes. Why not use it? While you’re standing there, visualize what you want for your day (or even your bigger goals). Say them out loud if you dare—your kids will think you’re weird, but also… who cares?

Example: “Today I’ll stay calm when chaos hits.” “I’m building the life I want, one small habit at a time.”

Pro Tip: Record yourself on your phone reading your vision and your goals and watch yourself reach your goals even sooner.


4. The 6-Minute Miracle Morning (Yes, Really)



If you’ve ever seen The Miracle Morning book by Hal Elrod and thought, “That’s cute, but who has time for that?”—same. But here’s the hack: you can do a mini version in 6 minutes.

Here’s how:
  • Minute 1: Silence (deep breath, pray, or just sit)
  • Minute 2: Affirmations
  • Minute 3: Visualization (see yourself crushing today)
  • Minute 4: Journaling (brain dump or gratitude list)
  • Minute 5: Reading one page of something uplifting
  • Minute 6: Stretching or jumping jacks
That’s it. Six minutes. You can even do this before the kids are up or while they’re brushing their teeth. It’s not perfect—it’s powerful.



5. Playlist = Instant Vibe Shift 



Music sets the tone. If you need to shake off a bad mood or just wake up your energy, put on a playlist that screams “main character energy.” It’s like free caffeine for your soul.

Some moms swear by “Good Vibes Only” playlists, others go for 2000s throwbacks (hi, Britney energy). Whatever makes you feel good—use it.


The Real Talk: It’s Not You, It’s the System

If your mornings keep falling apart, it doesn’t mean you’re lazy or broken—it just means you’re using a system that wasn’t built for you. Type B moms need routines that are flexible, forgiving, and fun… not rigid checklists that make you feel like a failure when life happens.

That’s exactly why I created the Productive as a Mother App—a system built for moms like us. Think: copy/paste routines, habit tracking, and simple hacks you can actually stick with.

👉 Get on the waitlist now by clicking the link—because your mornings don’t have to feel like chaos. They can feel like you.







Tired of chaotic mornings that leave you feeling behind before you even start? Dive into the Wake Up and Slay Mini Course and discover how to transform your mornings into a powerhouse routine that sets you up for all-day success! 


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ABOUT ME

So who is this Productivity Diva?

Hey hey, I’m DaVette 🤍—mom of 3, wife, and a former hot mess express who could not stick to a routine to save her life. I tried everything—planners, apps, waking up earlier—and nothing stuck. My brain felt like 47 tabs open, I was constantly overwhelmed, and I was snapping way more than I wanted to. Honestly, I started to believe I just wasn’t the kind of mom who could “have it together.”

After 6+ years as a health and wellness coach (and deep in my own postpartum mom brain era), I realized something huge: everyone tells moms what to do—but no one shows us how to make it work in real life… with kids, chaos, and zero uninterrupted time. So I stopped trying to force systems that weren’t built for me and created one that actually worked with my mom brain.

Now, I help moms do the same—build simple habits that stick, create time for themselves, and feel calmer, more present, and in control (without becoming a type A robot). Everything inside my courses, planners, and tools comes from what I needed when I was in survival mode—so you can stop feeling like a hot mess and start feeling like the mom you know you can be.


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